Self-Importance

John Whitehead
2 minutes ago
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For me, it is easy to see that self-importance is normal and natural. From the moment I wake up until I go to bed at night, I am consumed with thoughts, ideas, and considerations regarding myself.

This started early on as I wanted to know that others valued me and appreciated my contributions. As I age, I have come to realize, though true, this is not always required.

What can be done about this self-focus and self-concern?

We begin with acknowledgment and move toward acceptance. Then we will see that our reactions and responses are ours; just as someone else's behavior is theirs.

As Christ Followers, we have the example of Jesus, who lived a selfless life. If we can follow His example and put aside our constant concern with self-importance, we may be able to help someone else see their importance in our lives.

Everything in this life is an opportunity. Knowing this can help us see that life offers a chance to stop focusing on ourselves and start focusing on others.

How can we do this? Perhaps we start by understanding that others will see us as important in their lives when they know we see them as important in ours.

Remember, self-importance asks, “What can life do for me?” Following Jesus asks, “What can I do for someone else”?

Philippians 2:3-8

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